Ambitious Students – Amalia’s journey to independence

1. Can you tell us a bit about yourself and how you came to the Netherlands?

My name is Amalia and I’m 22 years old. I’m half Greek and half Albanian, born and raised in Greece. In 2023, I moved to the Netherlands to study psychology at Leiden University. Originally, I wanted to study medicine in Scotland, but the tuition fees were too high and I didn’t have financial support from my family. So, I chose psychology as a steppingstone toward psychiatry.

My sister had already done her master’s in Leiden, and I visited her often. I really liked the atmosphere. It’s calmer than Amsterdam but more connected than places like Groningen. It felt like the perfect middle ground, and I felt comfortable from the very start.

2. How do you manage financially while studying full-time?

I work full-time at Suit Supply as a style advisor. I’ve always been interested in fashion, especially since COVID. I love working with people, and this job lets me combine my social skills with my passion for style. It’s not easy juggling full-time work and studies, but I’ve found a rhythm. It takes discipline, but when you're passionate and focused, it works.

3. You mentioned not having financial support from your family. How has that shaped your journey?

It’s been tough. I’ve had to be completely independent since I was 18. I worked two years straight, seven days a week, sometimes 14-hour shifts, to save enough to move here. I’ve also had difficult moments with my parents, so I prefer to manage my finances on my own. It has made me stronger and more self-reliant. I know I can depend on myself, and that’s a powerful feeling.

4. What’s your experience been like living in Leiden?

I love it. I live on the first floor of my building, which is quiet and friendly. We have a great community. Neighbors cook for each other, pass plates around, and hang out. There are group chats for each floor, plus ones for politics, volleyball, and even a “Safe Space” chat for memes and casual talk. It’s a very connected and supportive environment. I felt at home right away.

5. What’s your message to other students who might be struggling?

Don’t fit in, create your own environment. Believe in yourself, even when it’s hard. Keep your passions alive. I still dance, play volleyball, and learn languages. I speak seven languages now: Greek, Albanian, English, French, German, Korean, and Dutch. Staying connected to what you love is key to good mental health. And if you’re studying abroad, learn the language, talk to people, and know that you can build a life that truly fits you, even if you’re doing it all on your own.